Men desperately hiding psychological privacy
For men, there are always a few civilians who are reluctant to tell women.
For example, his work situation, he feels that his girlfriend is here to share happiness, and is unwilling to bring unhappy things over.
Similarly, in order to prevent women from being jealous, they will not disclose their emotional experiences and so on.
Women’s privacy is usually written in the diary, locked in place, and even posted in the boudoir, only to tell her girlfriend.
What about men?
Men also have wealth, but their wealth is generally in their hearts.
Women’s personalities are usually shared with others, but men’s arbitrary anonymity is so deep that they can only chew them carefully.
Women want to know the wealth of a man, because only in this way can he easily penetrate into his inner world and become his spiritual partner.
The working situation is in the heart of the man. He feels that his girlfriend is here to share happiness. He hopes to give you the best and give you happiness.
Therefore, men do not want to let you know about things at work, especially things that are unhappy at work.
Profit or loss?
Is the bonus less or longer?
How is the boss treating himself?
Such questions, men generally do not like women to ask at home.
He knew that even if I told you, it wouldn’t help.
Because things are still there, and you can’t solve them, help.
Having told you, it will only increase your troubles.
He doesn’t want to distract you, he doesn’t want you to be.
There are some facts that men and men want to keep it secret because they don’t want to bring daytime things into the night. Therefore, men do not like women to interfere in work matters.A pleasant thing.
Of course, if you think you care about him, you should care about his work. You think this is the most basic.
But don’t put your intention on him, he doesn’t necessarily like it.
Emotional experience Female friends are very interested in her boyfriend’s past, especially his ex-girlfriend, so you may have been tangled on this issue, and you must know his emotional experience.
Emotional experience is their wealth to men. Generally speaking, he will not tell you casually.
Do n’t think that your boyfriend does not love you, he does n’t tell you, he is afraid that you think he still remembers his ex-girlfriend, and that you will never live in depression and be happy.
Everyone has a past, and he doesn’t investigate your past, so why bother entangled with the past, as long as he only holds you in his heart now, as long as you are single-minded about you.
Let his emotional experience be a dusty past.
Set his secret as a “minefield” in your heart, and always remind yourself not to get involved. Even if you hear only a few words, don’t dig deeper. Your stubbornness and stinginess arouse his memories and even remember the “her”What are the benefits?
This is my own thing. Maybe your man will often say “this is my own thing” before you. When you hear this sentence, please don’t give up.
You have to know that if you continue to ask questions, you will only lose both.
If he goes out for entertainment, you don’t have to ask who he is with.
If he wants to tell you, he will definitely tell you, to trust your man.
Women work on details, they like to communicate, they ask questions, and they even talk about horns. So in general, he wo n’t tell you some small things. He has a sense of being . many times he thinks it ‘s a man ‘s business.No need to fuss about it, because men’s affairs must be done by men.
Just give him some space.
When he needs you as a wife, don’t try to be a planner for his work and life.
Everyone has a psychological need to have their own living space, and men are no exception, so women’s wise choice is: let him go crazy, what fox friends and dogs, work conditions.A piece of his “reservation land”, he will cultivate!
I like to watch a lot of female friends often heard that her husband or boyfriend is often addicted to A, even when sex, or even to learn some of the actions in A.
Too many female friends even break up or divorce him for this problem.
Men like to watch pornographic videos just because men are “visual.”
The strength of this kind of sexual consciousness that men like to watch pornographic films is determined by the relationship between the inherent eroticism of the individual and the difficulty of approaching the subject.
Of course, it’s not wrong to watch A films, but it won’t work if you are too addicted.
You can watch with him and follow suit.
In the process of watching, you must give him proper guidance, communicate more, and understand his inner thoughts on the A movie. Only in this way can he not be in a state of addiction.
If you dislike and disagree with him, he may continue to be addicted.
Remember that this is his wealth, and don’t talk about these things as good things, just know in your heart.
If others know his diversity, he will definitely break up with you without saying a word.
Feminine demand Man looks strong on the surface, in fact, he also has a fragile side.
Sometimes he will spoil him in front of you, sometimes he will cry in front of you.
Don’t think that he looks like a sissy, because men also have various “feminine” psychological needs.
In terms of individual life, men are actually more vulnerable than women. However, both women and men have pointed out the behavior of men.
It seems that a man means masculine, strong, pragmatic, carefree, and unscrupulous.
In fact, otherwise, men also have a lot of unknown “feminine needs”, but they only keep secrets that they don’t tell, and women can’t open it up to see what happens.
A man is a face animal and likes women to appreciate and worship.
Therefore, the privacy of men must not be lightly revealed. Women only need to face calmly, realize understanding, and understand in their hearts.
Don’t tell it by mouth, let alone encourage him by love, “weak childish”, otherwise, men will think you look down on him, which can’t bear him.
His admiration for vanity and stinking beauty is also an unspoken thing, which will only make him angry and angry.
Sexual worries Although many men and wives are more harmonious in sexual love, men will always be involuntarily worried and worried . But these worries are not willing to let his wife know, let alone her cause.
Sex is a man’s life-long event, he cares a lot, and is an important cornerstone of man’s self-esteem and self-confidence.
Men are more or less concerned about their sexual abilities.
It’s a big secret that cannot be known to women.
If you find that your man is “sexual” behind, you have actually struggled.
Then don’t panic.
Your admiration and trust are the best “viagra” for a man. Indeed, he is the “slide” that causes the cause. As a wife or girlfriend, you should be impassive and insurmountable.
If his sexual concerns are pointed out in your mouth or known to outsiders, you will know the seriousness of the problem, he will make you serious, and you are ready to break up.
I like to talk about a few young men together, especially when several acquaintances chat together.
This can not be simply regarded as low-level indecent, this is a common psychological psychological reflection of men.
There are three main reasons for this: pass the boredom, relax the tension in the lounge by borrowing such boring words; promote the harmonious and harmonious atmosphere of gossip; when there are women nearby, some people abuse the language and obscenity.Time response.
Among the interviewers, people of different ages and experiences have different psychology.
Older, more experienced people talk about it, often to exaggerate their knowledge, but they should have concealed it, but this kind of psychology is puzzling to women.
People who are young and inexperienced talk mostly from a strange vanity. They do not want to be regarded as lack of experience or do not understand the world, so they are smart and talk about it.
In addition, some people are in a tense state of sexual thirst, and their conversations have the effect of relaxing tension and venting sexual desire.